New Chapter in my Life

Aloha,

One thing I never gave much thought to before Pat passed away, was what my life would be going forward.  These past 6 months I’ve taken some time to reflect on what I want my life to look like and what’s most important to me.

Now’s the time to make a few changes, while being grateful for the things that are perfect right now.

Here are a few things I want to focus on:

• Eat healthier.  Move my body. Being around for my grandchildren.
• Keep my space tidy. I’m slowly going through things- clothes, photos, paperwork, craft supplies!  I can’t imagine my kids going through all this stuff when I’m gone!
• Find the balance!  This is always a struggle for me.  Getting outside is important.  I’ve taken up gardening and have a beautiful rose garden & a cool aquaponics system in the greenhouse.
• Give back.  Probably the best way to cheer myself up when I’m feeling down is to do something for someone else.  Giving someone a compliment. Sending a card. Making cookies for someone. I’m even considering going on a mission trip, using my nursing experience!  I’ve wanted to do this since I was in my 20’s but was always tied down to a job or family.
• Schedule some fun!  Dinners with friends.  Planning my next trip. I’m thinking RIVER CRUISE!
• Keep stamping!  At first I wasn’t even sure if I’d still do classes.  But I’ve found that making cards & being around my friends is something I still need & love. It’s  therapy for me!

 

 

So here’s my last batch of beautiful handmade sympathy cards.  Thank you to everyone who has taken the time to call, text, email, or send a card.  I’m surrounded by so many dear friends.

2 more articles about grieving and things I’ve learned since Pat passed away:

It’s Been Six Months

Things I’ve Learned After Pat’s Passing

 

Thank you to all of you for being a part of my life.

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